(Yes that one, is there any other?) I was lamenting on the fact that Austin might not, in fact, be my home. He laughed at me in that way only a wise man can and said “April, men (women?) live to be 105 and never find their home.” I’m not sure if that was meant to be comforting or unsettling. Depends which day you ask.
I had one of those weeks where you a) meet one of your heroes and b) have the worst most vulnerable times at your “job.” One of those “what the hell am I doing” weeks. Things don’t happen for me in waves, they have happen in hurricanes within the same few days. It makes waking up entirely unpredictable. Almost anything can happen. At least you know that “this too shall pass” is a rather quick rip off the old bandaid. If I was on a ship, I’d be going down in the most spectacular way (by fire obviously) and then an angel would appear, blow out the flames and tuck us in safely on a deserted beach. Only to be met by carnivores natives waiting by the fire. One of which I’d immediately fall in love. Okay okay, I’m being dramatic but still… I’m clearly not on a ship.
And for some reason, I am reminded of this song by the Muppets:
Why are there so many songs about rainbows
And what’s on the other side
Rainbows are visions
But only illusions
And rainbows have nothing to hide
So we’ve been told
And some choose to believe it
I know they’re wrong, wait and see
Some day we’ll find it
The rainbow connection
The lovers, the dreamers, and me
Who said that every wish
Would be heard and answered
When wished on the morning star
Somebody thought of that
And someone believed it
And look what it’s done so far
What’s so amazing
That keeps us stargazing
And what do we think we might see
Some day we’ll find it
The rainbow connection
The lovers, the dreamers, and me
All of us under its spell, we know that it’s probably magic
Have you been half asleep?
And have you heard voices?
I’ve heard them calling my name;
Is this the sweet sound
That called the young sailors?
The voice might be one and the same
I’ve heard it too many times to ignore it
It’s something that I’m supposed to be
Some day we’ll find it
The rainbow connection
The lovers, the dreamers, and me
I guess all we’re searching for is that connection that grounds us to our purpose. I’ve fought long and hard about “purpose” because truthfully purpose gives far too much weight to what exactly it is we’re doing or meant to be doing here. Purpose is evolution yet it gives the indication of a very specific road and set of events we should be following which ineviatbly leads us away from what’s in front of us right now. And that is life. The rainbow connection, to me, is that magical illusive cousin of purpose. That connection though is the desire for something bigger, something greater than what we have now. But all we have is what is now. We feel it, we hear it, we strive for it and we hope, at the end of the day, to find it. But if we don’t, we’re still in the same company as the lovers and the dreamers. And that is the best company to be in, that is the company of those I love.
What Sam Shepard was telling me (You guys, I’m totally going to speak for Mr. Shepard right now omgimdying) is that life happens and you’re only job is to keep searching and discovering and documenting it all. But most importantly, being OKAY with how it all turns out because even at 105, you still might not know. But at the end of the day, does it really matter? “The voice might be one and the same.”